Curta - Eu Não Quero Voltar Sozinho / I don’t want to go back alone - English Subtitles (by danielribeiroII)
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This ongoing body of work explores the power dynamics inherent in the questions asked of transgender, transsexual, genderqueer, gender non-conforming, and gender-variant people.
Many documentary photographic projects that deal with trans issues exploit the genders of their subjects, pointing to an “otherness” or inappropriately exoticizing their bodies. A Series of Questions seeks instead to make visible the transphobia and gender-baiting that can become part of everyday interactions and lives, forming a fuller picture of the various lived experiences. In so doing, this work contrasts with the dehumanizing approaches that predominate the images made of transgender, transsexual, genderqueer, gender non-conforming, and gender-variant people, which often focus solely on their gender or trans status, or use them to further a specific point about social construction and gender.
The subjects hold signs depicting questions that each has had posed to them personally— some by strangers, others by loved ones, friends, or colleagues. Presented on white wooden boards, the questions are turned on the viewer, shifting the dynamics under which they were originally asked, and prompting the viewer to cast a reflective, self-critical eye upon themself, revealing how invasive this frame of reference can be.
As a greater number of subjects and questions are accumulated, a relentless conversation of questioning emerges. Attention is directed not on the backgrounds of the transgender, transsexual, genderqueer, gender non-conforming, or gender-variant subjects, but on the dynamics at work in these conversations. I am interested in uncovering the typology of these questions, discovering what categories of questions emerge as the script of power dynamics and interrogation is flipped.
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Things NOT to Ask a Gay Guy (via wickydkewl)
“There’s a difference between being attracted to someone and roofy-ing their drink and committing rape.”
Thank you. THANK YOU. THANK YOU for saying this. Let’s point out the absurdity of this assumption. Straight ladies and gents: do you assume that your heterosexual opposites will rape you if they’re attracted to you but you are not? NO! And if you’re getting the rape vibe from ANYONE, straight OR gay, you need to get the hell away from that person.
I don’t automatically assume, when I walk into a room full of straight guys, that every guy in that room thinks I’m attractive just because they’re straight. I also don’t assume that every guy who is attracted to me to act on that urge. I also don’t assume that all the men in that room are single or straight.
What’s ironic is I hear so little of this reaction from women towards lesbians; ie, “If you’re into women, does that mean you’re into me?” I mean, I’m sure it exists, but the lesbian community gets so much less spotlight attention like the gay community does, and bisexuals even less so. Or maybe it’s just that women are generally much more comfortable with their sexuality than men are in general. If that’s really the case, it’s a sad, sad thing.
Remember that old saying “assuming makes an ass out of you and me”? Think about that before you go act like an asshole.
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Source: heathuschrist
“It” Girl
Yeah, they called me It back in grade school
But it wasn’t the kind of It that was cool
Because I was bigger
Not because I was green
And I can’t tell ya how much it hurt that they had to be so mean
Damn kids, I grew to hate ‘em
and I quickly shut down
Kept myself in the corner
Didn’t dare make a sound
But lookin’ back at the pictures
I wasn’t all that big
I mean, so what that I was wearin’
My momma’s bras at 13
So what
That I was already a size three in my jeans
So what
But they still kept pickin’ on me
And it kept on goin’ through the years
from my early teens and later
On through middle and high school
The insults kept gettin’ greater
They called me a dyke, ‘cuz I couldn’t get a date
I never went to dances, I was afraid to wear dresses
Every time I looked in the mirror, all I could do was hate
See that’s what they did
They made me a traitor
A traitor to myself, the worst kind of hater
Everything about me was wrong
Because I wasn’t lean and long
But what could I do about it?
Diet?
Fuck that!
Yeah, I got tig bitties
And a bit of a belly
I’d rather have curves
And go to the deli,
Have some REAL food, you know?
‘Cuz I see those girls who starve themselves to be skinny
Cut out the carbs just to wear that mini
“Can I get that salad with the dressing on the side?”
Guess what, world?
I’m always gonna be wide.
Even if I lost half my weight by tomorrow
I’ll still have a few pounds leftover to borrow
So maybe I am an It girl.
It’s better than being a Fit girl.
Every bit of my life is delicious
What can you say about you?

It Girl by Coren Idle is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-No Derivative Works 3.0 United States License.
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